Others will only respect you to the degree you demonstrate respect for yourself Self-esteem refers to the way we view ourselves, our subjective perception of our worth as a person, our competence and our ability to succeed in life. It…
While there has been a lot more information and discussions on domestic violence and abuse in relationships in the last few years, there are still a plethora of myths and misconceptions that persist, including in the helping professions. Below are…
My friend and fellow psychologist Kerry Athanasiadis recently interviewed me for the Wattletree Psychology blog. In the interview we talked about my journey to the profession of psychology, developing a strong interest in domestic violence and abuse in relationships, and…
Guilt is one of several basic emotions (like anger, shame, sadness, love etc.) that all of us are wired to experience because it serves an important function. Typically, we would experience guilt in the following situations: Doing or thinking something…
Boundaries refer to our ability to set appropriate limits. When a person is confused about responsibility and ownership of their own choices and life, then we can talk about a problem of boundaries. Below are the three most common issues…
The ability to set appropriate personal limits and maintain them represents one of the most common issues I come across with clients. Generally speaking, the inability to set appropriate boundaries at appropriate times with the appropriate people can be very destructive…
There are many sources of support that women can draw on after having a baby, including family, friends, mother’s groups and maternal nurses. The role of their partner, however, consistently rates as the most important source of strength and assistance. …
The transition to motherhood It is an inevitable fact of life that becoming a mother is one of the most significant transformations women go through, accompanied by changes in nearly every aspect of their lives. The impact is all encompassing…
Anxiety and Panic Attacks Both physical and psychological stress can produce anxiety. Often stress and the feeling of anxiety that comes with it can be quite subtle, but this is when a person becomes more vulnerable to a panic attack. A…
The ability to recognize how your body reacts to stress can be a powerful skill. Most people are more aware of the weather or the time of day than they are aware of the tension in their bodies or their personal reaction…